---
title: "Gay personal ads — The A List"
description: "Personal ads from gay men looking to meet other men. Post with pictures and a full write-up, and reply through the site. Adults 18+ only."
url: "https://www.alistpersonals.com/gay-personals"
site: "The A List"
updated: "2026-11-07"
---

# Gay personals

Personal ads from gay men who want to meet other men, whether for a date, a friendship or something longer. Each ad has room for pictures and a full write-up.

[Read gay personals](https://www.alistpersonals.com/app/personals/gay)[Post an ad](https://www.alistpersonals.com/app/new)

## Writing a gay ad

Say whether you’re hoping to date, make friends or something else, and name your city so men nearby know the ad is for them. Say what your days look like and what you’d like to do together.

## Reading and replying

Confirm you’re 18 or older, then read the ads, newest first, and filter by city or area. Replies go through the site and are forwarded to the poster’s email, which is never shown.

## More personals

- [Straight personals](https://www.alistpersonals.com/straight-personals)
- [Lesbian personals](https://www.alistpersonals.com/lesbian-personals)
- [Bisexual personals](https://www.alistpersonals.com/bisexual-personals)
- [Queer personals](https://www.alistpersonals.com/queer-personals)
- [Missed connections](https://www.alistpersonals.com/app/personals/missed)